Itsallaguess wrote:I think this gets back to the heart of what kiloran was saying though Stemis, in that there's a sense of 'community' here that's upheld and encouraged in many of the investment and non-investment areas of the site, such as Beerpig's Snug, and then there's a huge level of negativity that takes much away from that sense of 'community' in other, much more aggressive and argumentative areas of the site.
I think at the heart of Dod's opening post, there's a sense that the broader community is worse off, both for those of us who currently enjoy it, and also for those that might be encouraged to join it, if the aggressive arguments continue to share a large and growing part of the discussion bandwidth...
While I too recognise that community is an important factor for many, I confess that for me it can hold a rather ambiguous resonance.
SteMis has already mentioned the village pub, where everyone falls silent when you (a 'foreigner') come through the door - that's "community".
You can be breezing along, enjoying yourself, thinking all is well in the world, trying to be helpful or light hearted (is that allowed outside
Laughing Lemons?) when without any warning out of the blue some member of the "community" comes charging at you like an enraged bull - that's "community".
Some while ago I mentioned some of the odd things I encountered on TMF. One thing I remember was that in an ongoing thread one could post a (possibly!) interesting suggestion. Nothing.
Many post later on some 'well respected member of the community' would post the same or very similar suggestion. This was immediately followed by posts declaring: "
What a splendid suggestion! Have a rec old bean" etc. - that's "community".
(In that case I could at least see a mechanical reason for how it could happen)
"community"? I can take it or leave it.