Thank you for all the great tips.
I was going to mention replacing the floors to full insulation with wet-loop Underfloor Heating (in the downstairs) as an example of what we did well on the internal renovation. Additional ports are for the extension. In a previous thread we covered the future replacement of gas boilers, so I'm interested in future-proofing for future energy solutions like heat-pumps and solar.
It's fair to suggest the pros and cons of extending versus moving. We are in a very desirable location. The build cost will be around £130k which will be more than covered by the increase in property value and utility it brings. The design will make a great family home but the ground-floor will also accommodate wheelchair access, ground-floor living and being a granny flat. So our next is likely to just be a downsize in 20+ years, ceteris paribus.
The house is East-West facing, with the side-extension facing South but no plain windows that side as it overlooks a neighbour. The roof will be suitable for solar. The rear extension is circa 10m long and West facing but will have sun on it from late morning onwards. It will be glass along the back (issue of sliding doors versus bi-folds?) and at present I'm tending toward a pitched-roof and large velux (safe to rule out flat roof and lanterns?).
Yes to sockets, network cabling and LEDs - good lighting is important and I have struggled with it in the past. We will include power ready for car chargers and plenty of external sockets/lighting (inc. for seating areas and a possible garden office). Likewise for water supply for front/back and perhaps possible irrigation system for some raised beds. As our TV is via the internet, do we need TV cabling?
For the long-term, having a house that is easy to maintain and with low overheads will be a good result. I want to have a complete 'bill of materials' and to make purchase decisions ahead of time, rather than being up until 2am researching showers when an instant decision required.
I confess that I'm not looking forward to the pain of the build and have already deferred it a couple of years due to workload and bereavement. If we don't proceed soon then 6 and 9 years our kids will be off to uni, so will miss some of the benefit. (Plus it all assumes we aren't entering into a Covid-19 depression etc. - in which case I'd rather keep the £150k in my bank account!)
It's a good point about architectural technicians. We did talk to an architect a few years ago with the request to come up with design options, instead he just came back with detailed CAD drawings of a design that plainly didn't work. In my experience builders, and the crowd here, have seen hundreds of extensions can know what works/doesn't work just as much as an architect who is more interested in making a 'design statement' than the use-case for post-walk washing a dog without getting muddy paw prints everywhere.